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How many of us finally get some alone time with our spouse, only to chat about the kids? Me too! Sometimes it’s hard to think of date night questions when you’re tired from work and parenting.

I’m sure many of us fall into that category, so I scoured the interwebs and compiled a list of questions to ask on date night to keep the conversation going. There are some thought-provoking ones along with some ‘Would you rather…’ questions for some fun. 


Date Night Questions

  1. What advice would you tell your 25-year-old self?
  2. How can I be a better partner to you this week?
  3. What is one thing we can work on to be better partners?
  4. When was the last time you felt loved?
  5. What is one thing or activity that makes you feel alive?
  6. What makes you feel appreciated?
  7. What is one thing you learned this week?
  8. What is one word that describes our relationship?
  9. What has been your greatest accomplishment this year?
  10. What’s your favorite memory of us in the last 5 or 10 years?
  11. What do wish you could spend more time on?
  12. What adventure would you like to do in the next few months?
  13. What traditions would you like to start this year?
  14. Is there something that annoys you that I do that I need to be mindful of or stop doing?
  15. Who has been inspiring you lately?
  16. What mutual goal would you like to see us accomplish in the next 5 years?
  17. What has gotten you excited these days?
  18. What is the most memorable life advice you received?
  19.  Five years from now, how do you envision our life together?
  20. What can we do as a couple to make a change in the world?
  21. What would you say your biggest strength is (and your spouse’s)?
  22. What is your dream vacation?
  23. If you could have dinner with one celebrity, who would it be?
  24. What goals do you want to accomplish in the next year?
  25. What would you choose to do for the rest of your life if money was not a factor?
  26. How can I support you more?
  27. What is your favorite childhood memory?
  28. Name an activity you want to add to your bucket list.
  29. What actor/actress would you choose to play the story of your life?
  30. Describe the perfect marriage.
  31. Name four people who have made the most positive impacts on your life.
  32. When did you fall in love with me?
  33. If you won the lottery, what’s the first thing you would do with the money?
  34. What is your favorite holiday?
  35. What is your favorite thing about me?
  36. If you could have one superpower what would it be?
  37. Where do you want to live once we retire?
  38. What is your favorite movie?
  39. What is your biggest regret?
  40. When do you find me the sexiest?
  41. Describe a time you felt brave.
  42. If you could experience our wedding night again, what would you do differently?
  43. What song makes you think of me?

Would You Rather?

  1. Would you rather be kidnapped by terrorists or aliens?
  2. Would you rather live for only one year with me or 100 years without me?
  3. Would you rather walk backward or crawl on all fours?
  4. Would you rather visit the Amazon rainforest or travel through the Bermuda triangle?
  5. Would you rather be the most intelligent person or funniest in the room?
  6. Would you rather own a robot or a magic carpet?
  7. Would you rather travel to a desert during summers or stay at home locked-in during winters?
  8. Would you rather wake up at work in your nightwear or wake up well dressed in the woods with a bear?
  9. Would you rather forget your collection of favorite secret movies or your mobile without a lock on your parent’s desk?
  10. Would you rather eat a stale sandwich or drink sour milk?
  11. Would you rather be born with a monkey’s tail or a giraffe’s neck?
  12. Would you rather date a zombie or an alien?
  13. Would you rather have a growing mustache or growing nails?

Any date night questions you would add to the list?

Need some ideas on what to do on your next date night? Check out these posts:

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